How did I meet Claudette, and how did we end up making Kauaʻi our home?
And how and why in the world did I get into politics?
Funny you should ask. 😉
It was 46 years ago, on May 17, when I fell in love with and married a beautiful young South African woman by the name of Claudette Comrie.
We had met just months before in front of the Moana Surfrider Hotel in Waikīkī.
She was literally just getting off the bus coming from the airport on her first-ever trip to Hawaiʻi.
My occupation at the time was driving a pedicab, peddling tourists around, and in general acting as a local tour guide. It was early evening and I was waiting in front of the hotel, soliciting rides from the arriving travelers when she disembarked from the bus.
While her first response to my pedicab ride solicitation was an emphatic “no”, later when by chance I ran into her again and asked her a second time, she said, “maybe later.”
As the reader of this missive has by now figured out “later” came soon enough, my lovely South African bride-to-be climbed onto my humble pedicab, I took her on a tour of Waikīkī, we had a whirlwind romance, and the rest, as they say, is history.
Neither of us of course knew what the future would hold.
We had known each other for less than 6 months when we were married in South Africa at Durban’s Old Fort Chapel. We spent several months (and all of our money) backpacking around Southern Europe and Israel.
We were broke, unemployed, and in love – without a clue as to what was coming next.
I called a former employer, who then offered me a job managing the Fernandez Fun Factory in the Waipouli Shopping Center on the east side of Kauaʻi.
We rented a unit at the Pono Kai where I walked back and forth to work until that first paycheck allowed me to buy an old Buick.
Kauaʻi was now our home. Our children and our grandchildren would be born here. Ultimately, our ashes will be scattered here as well.
We were broke, but with a lot of hope.
A year or so later I started with a partner, Reef Cleaning and Maintenance, then came Bali Ha’i Realty and Waiʻoli Properties, and eventually a small publishing business “Kauaʻi Business and Real Estate Magazine” and “Kauaʻi Magazine”.
I learned from the diverse experiences, and grew personally and professionally.
Claudette got a job working the front desk at Pono Kai and eventually with United Airlines in Līhuʻe.
I developed a love for writing and in the early 1990’s penned a missive entitled “I don’t want to be Donald Trump Anymore.”
I’m not making this stuff up. I was in the real estate business and Donald Trump was a real estate tycoon who had written “The Art Of The Deal”.
Claudette and I were able to purchase our first home (a “no money down” fixer-upper), we drove a nice car (Jeep Cherokee), and had two beautiful children (a boy and a girl).
I found myself thinking, I don’t need a bigger house or nicer car.
I was comfortable, happy, but still seeking greater challenges. I still had bills to pay on the 1st and the 15th like everyone else, but no longer yearned to chase the almighty dollar.
Don’t get me wrong, I was raised on Norman Vincent Peale and “The power of positive thinking.”
I believed then, as I believe now, that each of us has unlimited potential and we can reach whatever goal we set our sights on.
Claudette and I have traveled the world and experienced places and events many only read and dream about. My work in public service has been incredibly fulfilling and I know Claudette greatly enjoyed the career she chose with United Airlines (and has since retired from).
There’ve been very high peaks, deep valleys, and occasionally times of great stress, but the journey has been truly extraordinary.
We look now towards the coming day, the journey ahead, the accomplishments yet to be achieved, and the mysteries yet to be revealed.
Imua!









